My Friends with Benefits in West Germany

During my three years as a gay teacher in a British army school in West Germany, my social and love life took off in many directions. Shortly after arriving in 1978, I connected serendipitously with Lorentz, leading to countless adventures. Manfred and Paul added their own delights. Then there was my other love – roaming around Europe and over the Iron Curtain in my trusty yellow Renault 5, Spartacus and Michelin Guides in hand.

Being a gay teacher in an army school

In the late 70s/early 80s, as a gay teacher in a British Forces secondary school in West Germany, I faced unique challenges. The film “Nighthawks,” directed by a friend, explored similar themes, shedding light on the joys and difficulties of coming out. It resonated deeply with me, helping me to navigate my identity in the classroom. My interactions with students, particularly supporting two young women in their lesbian relationship, reminded me of the importance of positive role models for queer students.